Rebuke

Definition: to express sharp disapproval or criticism of (someone) because of their behavior or actions*

Approximate Number of Occurrences in Scripture (157)

Read: Jude verses 3-10 for full context of this account

Jude 1:9 (NIV) But even the archangel Michael, when he was disputing with the devil about the body of Moses, did not dare to bring a slanderous accusation against him, but said, "The Lord rebuke you!"

That Was Then

In researching the numerous rebukes given in scripture, it would have been easy to select one that GOD delivered to a single man or nation of people (e.g., GOD’s four chapter rebuke to Job (chapters 38-41) or one of His many rebukes to the Israelites). But what captivated me was the one account where a rebuke was most certainly warranted, but the speaker refrained.

The Book of Jude, being only one chapter, packs a powerful punch with each verse as he warns the church against being swayed by the apostates of the day. In the first few verses, he reminds them of the sovereignty of GOD and contrasts this with the godlessness of these men who speak as one with authority, while refusing to submit to GOD from whom all authority derives. In keeping with the respect for authority, Jude references a most unusual occurrence (one that could not have come other than by the revelation of GOD). This was a dispute between the archangel Michael and Satan about who had jurisdiction over Moses’ body when he died in Moab.

Deuteronomy 34:6 tells us that “He” (implying Michael acting on GOD’s command) “buried Moses in Moab and to this day no one knows where the grave is” (NIV). Theologians suggest that the Jews were susceptible to making a shrine out of Moses’ grave and falling into idolatry so GOD hid him. But Satan, having dominion over the earth and some authority over death (before Jesus’ resurrection) laid claim to the body. It was during this standoff where Michael, whom one would think had every right to tell Satan to go straight to… would rip him a new one. But refusing to impugn the devil’s dignity (what?!!!) he instead said, “The LORD rebuke you!”

Jude reminded the church that Michael had respect for the office Satan formerly held as Lucifer, the anointed cherub who once covered the throne of GOD. Albeit an extreme example, he contrasts it with the apostates who speak authoritatively of things in the spiritual realm of which they are completely ignorant. This warning is as much for us today as it was for the first century church. How often do we (whether in prayer or conversation) rebuke the devil by going into long tirades of condemnation? How many times have we questioned GOD or addressed Him in a manner that undermines His authority? Scripture instructs us to resist the devil, not rebuke the devil. I’m not saying we should just lie down and let Satan have his way. However, unless we are adept at spiritual warfare, it would serve us well to imitate the archangel Michael and let the LORD do most of the rebuking in these cases.

This is Now

We often hear references to rebuke(s) and naturally associate a religious context. On the contrary, many circumstances outside of religion may call for us to occasionally rebuke each other. In fact, if we consider ourselves a true friend, we will courageously say the thing that most people see, but are unwilling to bring up. Parents sometimes have to play “bad cop” to safeguard their children from consequences of inappropriate behavior. Mentors often administer strong correction to their mentees when pushing them past complacency. Managers and executives from time to time must address the elephant in the room with their coworkers at the risk of their popularity. And, of course, religious leaders (and every GOD-loving, GOD-fearing person) are called to “correct, rebuke and encourage each other -- with great patience and careful instruction” (2 Timothy 4:2). Unlike correction, rebukes are reserved for moments when the suggestion was ignored or an alarm needs to be sounded. No matter the reason, the intention should always be to help the recipient make the necessary change(s) so they can be successful.

If your motives differ even slightly from wanting the recipient to be better as a result, then you didn’t rebuke them. You simply told them off. And, rightly so, you should prepare yourself for an equivalent response. At first the admonition may seem harsh, catching the recipient off guard, but if delivered effectively the shock will eventually dissipate as the truth sinks in. Contrary to popular belief, rebukes are often received with gratitude and a hearty respect that you cared enough to risk the relationship and point out their error. Likely because it was expressed with earnestness and contained helpful suggestions for improvement. Here are some examples: “You’re often several minutes late when we get together. It makes me feel as if you don’t respect me or my time. If this continues, I won’t meet with you anymore.” “Sometimes you say things about other people that sound a lot like gossip. It makes me wary of trusting you. You might want to consider whether or not you would say it if the person were present.” I loaned you money for one reason, but you used it for something completely different. This makes me feel manipulated and used. I don’t understand why you wouldn’t just be truthful with me.”

Unfortunately, there are still times when a mild rebuke is unheeded and we may need to turn up the heat. Those cases require extra prayer, a strongly-worded reproach or quite possibly a decision to terminate the relationship until the recipient has demonstrated an appropriate degree of remorse and repentance. Even in these cases, a sincere desire to help them become better as a result should be the primary objective. If the person is truly wicked, then no amount of correction will work. Most healthy relationships will sustain and even thrive from such honest communication.

Who Said That?!!!

“Better is open rebuke than hidden love.” (Proverbs 27:5) – King Solomon

What Do You Say?

AFFIRMATION: "When the situation warrants, I correct, encourage and rebuke with great patience and careful instruction."

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